Why Are Female Friendships Important to Women?
Female friendships are foundationally important for women. At our core, we are created for relationships. Ideally, these relationships will be life-giving and offer us not just companionship, but growth opportunities and support. The Bible encourages relationships because God invented the idea, and He gave His life so that He could restore relationship with us. The Bible explicitly tells us that we should surround ourselves with people who can challenge us to live closer to the Lord and be the best versions of ourselves we can be. We are to be in relationships that sharpen us, just as iron sharpens iron (Proverbs 27:17). Why is it important to have female relationships? Female friendships can be an important part of this sharpening. They can also bring emotional comfort, lots of coffee, and laughter. They’re an important part of womanhood because of the unique ways that women relate to each other. While these sharpening friendships aren’t exclusively reserved for platonic, same-sex friendships, there are some compelling reasons why female friendships can fulfill this directive and can deeply enrich your life. Women are emotionally intelligent Female friendships are often deeply personal because most women are naturally inclined toward emotional awareness and deep connections. Women tend to have a high Emotional Quotient, or EQ. That means that they are skilled at recognizing emotions, both in themselves and in others. They also excel in responding with empathy because of this deep ability to feel. Because of this, female friendships can grow deep emotional bonds. Conversations often go beyond surface-level topics and move into meaningful discussions about deep-seated fears, hopes, and relationships. This bond can happen relatively quickly. Women are empathetic Everyone can learn to be empathetic, but women tend to excel in this area naturally. These female-to-female friendships often mimic what the Scripture tells us [...]









